What to Ask Your Divorce Lawyer
Meeting with a divorce lawyer can be overwhelming. Asking the right questions helps you understand your options and plan for the future. Here are essential topics to cover in your first consultation.
Custody and Parenting Time
- Q:"What custody schedules are realistic in my state?"
- Q:"How does joint custody usually work for children under 5? For teenagers?"
- Q:"How are holidays typically divided?"
Understanding custody arrangements early helps you prepare for negotiations and set realistic expectations for your parenting schedule.
Finances
- Q:"How is spousal support calculated here?"
- Q:"What happens with joint debt and credit cards?"
- Q:"How will retirement accounts be handled?"
Financial questions are crucial because they affect your long-term security and ability to support yourself and your children.
Property Division
- Q:"Is my state a community property or equitable distribution state?"
- Q:"How will the house and mortgage be divided?"
- Q:"What happens to business assets?"
Property division rules vary significantly by state, so understanding your state's approach is essential for planning.
Process and Timeline
- Q:"How long will my divorce likely take?"
- Q:"What documents should I bring to the first hearing?"
- Q:"What happens if my spouse and I can't agree?"
Understanding the timeline and process helps you prepare mentally and financially for what lies ahead.
Before Your Consultation
- Gather financial documents (tax returns, bank statements, pay stubs)
- Make a list of all assets and debts
- Write down your main concerns and priorities
- Prepare questions about the lawyer's experience and fees
- Bring a notebook to take notes during the meeting
Disclaimer: This information is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Every situation is unique. Please consult with a qualified attorney for advice specific to your circumstances. See our Legal Disclaimer andAdvice Disclaimer for more information.